I will examine these propositions in regard to two recent “negotiations” regarding German gender policies: Attempts to establish legal quotas on the boards of private companies, and the launching of a childcare allowance for parents who raise their children at home. The center/left Länder quota initiative failed to pass in the Bundesrat, even though some conservative Länder joined in the demand for stronger, gender sensitive board representation; the second endeavor, pushed by Bavaria despite rejection by a majority of Länder, resistance at the federal level and massive public protest, was approved in both chambers of Parliament, taking effect in August 2013. Both the quota and the child allowance decision making processes were set within EU-level discursive frames, but confronted implementation barriers on the national and subnational level. Both cases also exhibit the EU’s role in fostering trans-party women’s coalitions, even though these coalitions’ frames ultimately were squashed by party interests.