Facing a Europe divided on a right of family life without discrimination on the ground of sexual orientation, what king of messages did the Strasbourg Court wish to send to its 47 member States though its both 2013 judgments? The decisions should not have been made purely upon legal analysis, taking into account of the Strasbourg practices of dialogue between judges. Actually the principle of European consensus has been maintained in both Strasbourg decisions, and there is still no such right to marriage accessible to all. Besides, the Strasbourg judges are not isolated, at least there are German and Austrian constitutional courts that have also been trying to equalise marriage and registered partnership. If national courts are willing to follow the decisions, as it did happen in the U.S. after the Supreme Court's United States v. Windsor decision, it can be a solution while the legislators are reluctant to change.