Often, a bundle of political and/or social rights is bestowed upon transborder co-ethnics including the access to citizenship, even if the legitimacy of their stake (Bauböck, 2008) in the polity of the kin-state is questionable. However, as group identifications and ethnicity are subjective, malleable, contextual and driven by situational logic, there is a discord in some cases between a state’s recognition of who its ethnic kin is and the affected people’s ethnic self-identification. The main aim of the paper is to show why and how states confer citizenship or related rights (based on perceived co-ethnicity) to people who do not adopt a political stance of politically identifying with the kin-state majority. The paper will use examples such as Vlachs or Bunjevci among other cases in the context Albania, Croatia, Greece and Serbia.